I Need Help?!!! Please Help!?
My aunt is only 34 and she has this huge anger problem. She’s a bit overweight and she’s not married or has children. We think that she takes out all the anger about how her life has turned out on her family members. She’s never had a boyfriend and she’s already 34 so imagine how lonely she is. She is a good person deep inside but lately she’s been a real b&*%$! How do we confront her about this and should we get her help?
An example about her anger would be like today we were at my other aunt’s house and I got a water bottle from the refridge. She told me if she could have some and I tolk her that there was more inside and she said that she didn’t want to use up the water bottles. So I servered her some in a glass and she got really upset because I gave her very little water and the owner of the house which is my other aunt told her to just get another water bottle that it was ok and she said no I wanted a little bit only and I didn’t want to use up yours. So she was mad because I gave her a little but she did say she wanted a little bit. Also she gets really really upset when things don’t go her way. Like we are really close as a family and if we want to get together for lunch we will and it has to be to the place she wants to go. And if the food is cold then omg she will complain!!! She has a dog that barks like crazy and when he doesn’t stop barking she hits the poor dog with a tennis racket! It’s inhumane and we feel so bad for him. Please help me! I can’t take this anymore I want her to be happy and she hardly is can you help me what should I do? Thanks!
you should have a friendly talk
but not about dating or anything
you should just tell her about how work sucks
and how you want to kill the ***** you hate
then after you become good friends
you should try to get her into exercising
it will probably work out