My Ex Told Me To “take Care”, I’m Confused And Not Sure What I Should Do Next. Help Please !!!!!!
My ex ended things pretty nasty 4 months ago. Unfortunately there is not a day that goes by that I don’t think of her. Just recentyl I sent her a poem on Facebook that took me 2 weeks to write and she responded back with. ” she isn’t mad at me, she is cool with me.
My roomates told me to leave it at that and for the most part I did. Than 2 days later she sent me a message on Facebook asking me for a tennis racket. I reponed back with I have plans it being July 4th but could get it for you tomorrow if that works. She responded the next day with, ” I ended up finding one. I guess I played tennis
in another life. lol. Take Care.
Please help cause I don’t understand this girl. Was her way of asking to borrow a tennis racket a way of wanting to see me? Should I be aggressive and ask to meet for lunch ? Or do as my roommate is telling me and wait until she makes the first move ? I’m so confused
If you have unresolved feelings (which you obviously do) than ask her out for lunch. Make sure you say that it’s not a date just so you don’t scare her away. She must have had her reasons for breaking up with you. Once you see her face to face, tell her you still have feelings for her and see how she reacts. If you don’t put it all out on the table you’ll always ask yourself “what if”.
Maybe the tennis racket was a way for her to see you but she got scared? Or maybe she really just needed a tennis racket? Don’t get your hopes up too high.
Hope everything works out for you
She meant just that, “take care”, move on. Don’t get your mind stuck on one girl, especially if she’s your ex. There are many beautiful women out there, waiting to be taken by a man who is sure of himself. Don’t become emotionally dependent on her, as you will be inflicting undue pain upon yourself. Find another girl, there are plenty to chose from.